Stop Speaking to Everyone: How to Attract the Right Customers With Clarity

If you’ve been showing up, posting content, and tweaking your offers but still not seeing the right people engage, this post is for you. Because here’s the truth: The more you try to appeal to everyone, the more your message gets ignored by the people who matter most

Why Broad Messaging Doesn't Work

In today’s fast-moving world, people are bombarded with thousands of messages every day. Our brains can’t process it all, so we filter.

That filter is called the reticular activating system, which tunes out anything that doesn’t feel personally relevant.

So if your message is too broad, it doesn’t trigger that filter. It doesn’t say, “This is for me.” Instead, it blends in.

That’s why specific messaging attracts. When people feel seen, they listen.

The Real Cost of Trying to Please Everyone

Trying to be general feels like playing it safe. But in reality, it’s risky.

You lose clarity. You lose connection. You lose trust.

When your message is too broad:

• Your content sounds like everyone else’s

• Your ideal clients scroll past

• Your brand voice weakens

  And the result? Slower growth, low engagement, and confusion about what you offer.

So, what should you do instead?

1. Define Your Person

Who exactly are you trying to help? Get specific. Think niche, identify pain points, and understand desires.

2. Use Their Words

Mirror the language your audience uses. Speak to them, not at them.

3. Say More With Less

Speak to one person at a time. When you create like this, it connects more deeply.

4. Own Your Boundaries

Your brand is not for everyone, and that’s your strength. Say no to what doesn’t align.

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Who is your brand really for? Drop a one-liner in the comments, or just write “REFINING” if you’re still figuring it out.

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